How do I cope with this cynical friend?

First of all, tell her this, tell her how you feel, no matter if she plays the card or not, it's time to let her know what's in your mind, speak up, sure you might not want to tell some personal stuff, that's alright, you just need to talk this one out, it's about time to tell her you guys have a problem, maybe she doesn't even realize this, you got to take a chance and ask or else you might never solve this problem. If this doesn't work, maybe it wasn't meant to be, there are times where loss is for the the better.