Monday, August 8, 2011
Am I in love, or just infatuated?
First of all, I do not believe anyone can no for sure if they are in love (versus "in lust" or infatuated), until they have been together for a long time. You have to have time to see if you can sustain this feeling. Get to know each other (good and bad) and see if it grows or fizzles. I am not a believer in love at first sight. I believe in lust at first sight or extreme infatuation, but love is something that has to grow. It actually takes time to get through the "honeymoon" phase of a relationship and see what's there. Why do you need to label it? A crush can last for years if it is from afar. If you have not actually been with the person in a real relationship, you can not know what your true feelings are.
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